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dating your best friends brother
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I just ended a 5yr. relationship with my boyfriend and have noticed some feelings developing between me and my best friends little brother. I am 4 years older than him and have been best friends with his sister for 12 years. This all just hit me so fast and unexpected. I told myself that it's all got to do with the breakup and being single again but I can't seem to get her brother off my mind. Will all of this pass soon? []
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2005-06-01 14:52:12 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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I have an advice diary, so if the author of this one doesnt come back, then drop me a note. Sorry for advertising in yours if you do. :) [Sarah_53]
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2003-11-25 19:31:45 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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Hey! Do guys prefer girls to be shaven down there [you know, for oral]? Thanks! [OneUvaKind]
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2003-08-01 15:09:46 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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How do I let a guy that I'm about to have sex with know that I'm a virgin without him being turned off by the fact or anything. I never told him that I wasn't, but I'm not sure if he just assumes that I'm not a virgin or what. Please help! Thanx:)! [Corteney]
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2003-07-13 08:41:58 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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ok well i did it with this guy and whats the word for it he released inside of me but i started my period the next day does that mean i can't be pregnant? or are there still possiblities that i can be pregnant? [jamie]
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2003-06-24 18:27:34 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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yea, after you have oral sex and then kiss...that is nice...but there is no way on earth that i will ever let a man cum in my mouth....ugh [mtdreaming]
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2003-06-17 13:55:08 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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I really liked your answer on that last question, I love it when they go in for a kiss. [ellipsis]
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2003-06-17 13:32:26 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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ok, if u r on the pill(& don't miss them), but have sex regularly with out condoms, and he cums in u every time, what are the chances of getting pregnant?????????????? are the chances high or low??? it really doesn't matter either way, i'm just curious. please answer soon. [TheLostAngel]
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2003-06-16 21:46:25 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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Ok, here is a question for you. I am a 24 year old female, and have been dating someone for a year and a few months. He is a great guy...I mean, GREAT. I have fallen in love with him. The only problem is that he is finishing up his masters degree program, and plans to move out of state, because he hates our climate and wants warmer weather. He is 99.9% sure he is moving to Phoenix in August. I have asked him what will happen to our relationship, and he says he doesn't know. I seriously think he is "the one". However, he isn't sure that I am the "one". He doesn't know what love feels like, and isn't sure that he is in love with me. He said that it could happen down the road, but he doesn't feel that way now. He is the type that likes to take things slow, etc. I don't know what to do, because I feel like he could be the one, but I refuse to have a long distance relationship, and I refuse to move to Phoenix with him unless I know he loves me. Part of me wants to end our relationship now, because its rather pointless, right? But the other part doesn't want to think of what my world could be like without him. I just don't know what to do.......... [47grl]
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2003-06-16 12:49:00 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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Hi, me and my boyfriend are about to have sex for the first time really soon ... and I want to know what to do so I don't look really dumb or clumsy and I at least know what I'm doing ... thanx for any advice you can give me! [Krissy]
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2003-06-16 09:17:41 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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Hey, ok, here's my question. It's been 7 months since my ex and I broke up, and I'm STILL not over him. I've been on the rebound from guy to guy after him, but that just made me miss him more. Can you please tell me some good ways to get over a guy that don't involve getting a new guy? I know your a guy so thanx for any help you can give me:)! [Jenn]
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2003-06-13 10:46:06 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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ok i need some advice fast. ok see Im not gana brage or say anything to snobby but i really think I beautifulll. Great hair,thin and beautiful blue eyes BUt my face kills it. i had accney for like 2 years now and like3mounts ago I got rid of my anoying accney but my face still has redness and bumps.I feel so I dont wana say this but ugly . And makup dosent help me. How can I get the red skin and bumps off or away. Thanks. [ROMANTICA2]
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2003-06-12 09:07:41 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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~*ok, I have another problem. (it's a differnet guy now and if you don't remember u gave me advice a while ago too. lol.) My boyfriend is a stoner. He comes over every day and he is like the coolest guy whenever he's not high. But when he is it really scares me. It there anything that I might be able to do to maybe get him to at least stop when he's around me (which is quite a lot. lol.) Or is it just pretty much useless? *~ coolgurl42 [coolgurl42]
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2003-06-08 10:41:51 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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Hey advice 4U, This looks like fun...care to team up? Maybe for a trail period...I'm sure you'll wanna know more about me. If your interested email me at myelegantwatse@aol.com [elegant waste]
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2003-06-07 10:06:39 |
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whats it taste like down there??!!
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Here's my question, there's this guy I like, have for awhile, and I decided that I'd tell him I liked him, through a note. It was short, I just said 'I like you a lot' then signed my name. He didn't say anything to me even though we were around each quite a bit throughout the day, is this a bad sign? Are there any signs I can look out for to see if he feels the same about me? [writers ink]
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2003-06-06 22:03:29 |
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im back with replies to 5 of ya! sorry!
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Im going to assume your a guy and ask if youv'e ever gone down on a girl, and if you have you'll have an answer. I know this is a bit graphic/gross, but I'm wondering what it tastes like to go down on a girl. Im just nervous about it because my bf wants to go down on me and the only reason I dont want him to is because of that. [da1NonlyBreezy]
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2003-06-04 00:35:17 |
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one thing led to another
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Hey, advice guy! Please tell that girl that thinks she is going to sleep with her friend, that she should REALLY consider waiting! I did the same thing, thought the same things and I got SCREWED (oops, not pun intended). I really wished that I had waited, and I still regret it on some level, it has had a profound effect on the way that I treat sex now. What if the guy gets a girlfriend? Will she become emotionally attached to him, as most girls do? I know that it is hard to listen to someone else when you have already made your mind up about it, but she needs to consider these things! PLEASE LET HER KNOW! I don't want someone else going through the same thing I did. [CheekyBrat]
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2003-05-30 18:57:28 |
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one thing led to another
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you've given some great advice man, keep up the good work...Last_diary: it is normal for your period to be inconsistant at first, there are a few entries in "PeriodGirl"'s diary that address this issue if you want to hear it from a female. hope that helps you. [Redcat]
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2003-05-30 17:04:57 |
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one thing led to another
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I started my period in October 2002 but since then I've only had one. I had one when I started and another in January. I don't know what's going on. I'm 13. I haven't had sex so I can't be preggers. What's going on? [last_diary]
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2003-05-26 11:16:58 |
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one thing led to another
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I started my period in October 2002 but since then I've only had one. I had one when I started and another in January. I don't know what's going on. I'm 13. I haven't had sex so I can't be preggers. What's going on? [Anonymous]
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2003-05-26 11:14:57 |
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one thing led to another
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I'm a virgin and to tell the truth I havent' frenched yet, either. I'm going into my freshman year, and i'm 14... and I know i'll get a b/f b/c i'm not ugly, and to tell the truth (not to brag) but guys really like me, they tell me I have a great personality, but I don't want to be a virgin and I want to experience something 'with that special someone' but... my question is: how do I definately KNOW that i'm ready, and how special does that 'special someone' have to be? lol b/c I don't want to wait until i'm married, i'll be f*cking that person for the rest of my life, and I need SOME excitement in my life lol thanx! ~Christina [christina]
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2003-05-25 15:26:14 |
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one thing led to another
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I have a diary here already but I don't want people knowing it's me. Well, um... I'm going to sleep with this guy. He's not my boyfriend, but he's one of my closest friends. He asked before, but I said no, because I thought I was too young, I wanted to wait till I was married. But I also wanted to do it with someone who was also a virgin, and I don't think I'm going to find a guy who's a virgin when I get married, lol. So, I haven't planned a date to do it, but I would like to when I turn 17. I'm doing it someone who's always been my friend, and special to me. So, I guess that's ok, right? I don't want to sound like I get off with anyone. And also, like I said in my last comment, I didn't like going down on someone, but I want to make it really good for the guy I'm going to sleep with, so if I tried going down again on the first guy that I tried it on, (I've only done it once), I mean, if I like "practised" on the first guy I did it with, would it make me a sl**? Is my comment easy to understand, I've kinda made it complicated... [aimee]
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2003-05-25 13:37:43 |
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one thing led to another
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I have an obsession on a celebrity. Hes got his own show, his funny, i just love him! But i seem to think this whole thing isn't going anywhere. I do enjoy the obsession, but what would you do if you were in my situation? [Anonymous]
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2003-05-22 17:33:17 |
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Guilty feelings after oral
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the other day i bumped into an old friend and we started talking. one thing lead to another and the next thing that i knew he had me laid down on my bed and he was fingering me and giving me oral. and you know what? it felt so good. i gave him my new number and made another date for him. i want to go all the way with this guy, you know but i don't want to get pregnant. but i definently wnat to have the same uhhhhh feeling. [amazed]
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2003-05-21 17:12:13 |
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Dealing with perverts
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'AUCH', that made absolutely no sense what you said...observe... i for one don't buy this universal "IT WASNT YOUR FAULT GARBAGE" i mean granted, IT'S NOT YOUR FAULT if someone commits a crime against you. ?????????????????????? [Advice 4U]
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2003-05-20 12:24:56 |
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Dealing with perverts
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Um.. yesterday, I went down on someone for the first time. I knew what I was getting into, and I still went round his house. We started kissing then he asked me to suck... you know and I didn't want to but out of curiousity, I did. I didn't enjoy it, and I feel guilty. I'm not dating anyone, but I feel common and dirty, and used. Oh, I don't know what to think. [embarrased]
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2003-05-20 12:22:10 |
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Dealing with perverts
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[embarrased]
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2003-05-20 12:21:34 |
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Dealing with perverts
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i for one don't buy this universal "it isn't your fault garbage" i mean granted, it's not your fault if someone commits a crime against you. ...so maybe your first recourse would've been to turn to the cops instead of friends. ...but that would just be too logical i guess. ...oh well, didn't mean to butt in. [Auch McFadden]
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2003-05-20 12:19:18 |
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2 ladies in need of guy help
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Hey!! I was going out with a guy who took advantage of me and used his strength against me. Im still a virgin but it has really messed me up inside!! I've told some friends and they were really nice about it to begin with but now its like old news to them but its still really upsetting me!!! what should i do?? - Susie [sooz]
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2003-05-19 14:39:01 |
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dating your best friends brother
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~*Hey, I met this guy right? He's like 2 and a half years older than me ok. Well he said that he just wanted 2 be friends. But we make out and like a week and a half ago he fingered me. Is he a jerk or does he like me or does he just not like relationships or what? I could use help. thanx*~ coolgurl42 [coolgurl42]
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2003-05-17 16:47:57 |
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dating your best friends brother
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hey, well me and this guy have been friends for awhile but he knows that ive never kissed anyone and i know he's a bit more experienced... we used to like each other but always have said just friends even though i wished it was more. well recently iv noticed that hes become more inrterested in me. he invites me places & wants to hang out. well were gunna hang out soon and i know he wants to kiss me because we talked about it and we both agree. the only thing is i dont know how. i really need your help. hes really special to me and i dont wanna ruin the moment but haveing no clue what to do! thanks alot!!! ~katy [katy]
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2003-05-17 11:32:48 |
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is it okay to go out with your best friend's brother if you both like eachother and your friend says its totali cool??? ~kitty [lily9]
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2003-05-15 17:35:47 |
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hey. I read the entry before this one. Damn true. I'm currently reading a diary where her sis recently committed suicide and she is well shaken up. I respect advice givers. Because I like helping people too. It makes this world seem....less shitty. lol. [Willo wisp]
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2003-05-15 11:36:29 |
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SUICIDE
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wow, that is hella true. I have tried a number of times, and it scares me to death what could have happened. Its just so damn permanent ~kitty [lily9]
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2003-05-08 13:51:46 |
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SUICIDE
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Very very very true. Suicide is an insult to God. I've never thought of it like that! [OneUvaKind]
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2003-05-07 19:11:28 |
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SUICIDE
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wow that does give me the chills too. I have known some people who have killed themself or tried to. When I hear people say they want to kill themselves all i want to say is "HOW SELFISH OF YOU!". that thing you got from another diary says it perfectly. I always tell myself "Every person you meet is fighting a harder battle" and no matter how much life sucks it can get so much worse...but it also can get so much better! [sweetpea82]
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2003-05-07 12:30:56 |
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Today's advice
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ok well i have this problem i just recently broke up with my b/f i had been meaning to break up with him for a while but for some reason i had never been able to and then the other day he called me and told me that the reason for his phone call wasn't too pleasant and so i automatically assumed he was going to break up with me so i decided that i was going to break up with him before he could break up with me and so i did i used some truth and made up a couple of things but then it turned out that he was just going to ask me some questions that might have offened me and then a couple of days after i had broken up with him i went to talk to him i snuck out of my house and went over to his house then i told him what was on my mind and he was like ok yeah i want to go out with you again and then we did it but then afterwards he was like let me drive you home and when we got to my house he was like forget about me but i can't hate him i mean i'm like the type of person whom people can say mean things too and i won't be rude back so i just cant hate him but i feel like i should so i don't know i want to forget him and just get on with my life but i can't he was the first guy i did it with and i have met this really nice guy hes like the one who is going to help me get over my last b/f but i don't want to play him you know since im like on the rebound or whatever i feel like i really care for him but i don't know maybe what i'm feeling isn't really caring feelings for him it might be trying to get over the last one with this one feelings [karen]
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2003-05-04 20:42:12 |
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ADVICE for the day!!
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I need some advice. I already asked someone else, but I wanted to ask you too. You see, I am completely addicted to emails. Not junk mail or forwards. And every person who writes to me is responded to in kind. But, How do I increase my volume of incoming personal emails, just so I have something or someone to write to? My email address is Ellipsis70@yahoo.com [ellipsis]
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2003-04-30 20:37:56 |
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First advice entry now that I am back!!
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Good to see you back, And by the way I put the porch furniture out on april 4th. It was perfect. [ellipsis]
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2003-04-30 03:20:52 |
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First advice entry now that I am back!!
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your right, I should just talk to them about it, the only thing i am tripping about is what if they are because my sister used to, and it changed her forever, and i dont wanna lose them. i guyess i should just talk to them about it. thanks ~kitty [lily9]
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2003-04-29 14:09:49 |
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Get my groove back on...ask away
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I just starting reading your diary, and I like what you do with it. Is there any way to like be sure if my friends are doing cocaine or not? ~kitty [lily9]
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2003-04-29 11:29:17 |
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Im back!!
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Thanks for your insight! :) [OneUvaKind]
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2003-04-27 21:07:09 |
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bad breath??
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that is so f-ing foul. you smelled vag in your husbands mouth and it smelled "really bad??" does your crotch smell like ish too?? confront your husband with your suspicions so he can laugh in your face. xoxo. [Anonymous]
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2003-04-10 03:51:12 |
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bad breath??
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I was just wondering, do you think that when people are drunk, they're more inclined to tell the truth? Or do they say things they don't really mean? [OneUvaKind]
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2003-03-26 19:16:31 |
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bad breath??
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Wow, that last one was a doozie. I just want to know when is a good time to put the porch furniture out? is it too early? the weather is nice, but I doubt if it will stay this nice. However, while it is, I want to be sitting on the porch. [ellipsis]
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2003-03-18 11:09:09 |
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bad breath??
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"In 7th grade, Nicole and I were TIGHT. And I mean TIGHT. That's the year that Mackenzie came to our school. And about towards the end of November, Mackenzie and I became REALLY close and TIGHT. Again, I mean TIGHT. We went skating at least three times a week, even on school nights, and always saw each other on the weekend. If we didn't get to see each other, we would call and talk on the phone and e-mail. Nicole didn't really like Mackenzie after we became tight, and many fights erupted. It was literally a living hell (pardon me, but it was). Mackenzie and I were inseperable; best friends. I finally had that best friend figure (other than Lyra : ) that was always with me. Then, at the end of the year, Mackenzie told me that she was going back to homeschooling. I was CRUSHED! So when school came around, I had to go to school w/out Mackenzie and that was hard. We got together LOTS over that summer, but then school started, and we were both really busy. We didn't see each other much, but we e-mailed, talked on the phone, and IM'd a lot. But it wasn't the same. There were times when we'd get together and it would be like old times. Then high school (9th grade, this year) came around, and I had to start my high school years without Lyra AND Mackenzie. That was a really crappy way to start high school: without your best friends. And to top it off, Amber is a year behind me (she's in 8th grade) so she wasn't in H.S. with me either! But we have algebra together, so I get to see her then, and she eats lunch with us in the chemistry room. Again, Mackenzie and I weren't as close. But over the past 2-3 weeks, we have gotten really close again. And I'm not going to let us drift apart again. We are going to stay close no matter what. We kind of decided (without really deciding) that we were going to try and see each other at least once a week, or once every two weeks. And that works, because we're going to be getting together so I can "tutor" her on her algebra. I'll see her EVERY WEEK!!!!! I'm really happy about that. : D " There's my problem... (that was from another diary entry of mine.) Kenzie has been using the term "best friend" for granted. If I have a problem, and don't feel like telling her about it at the moment (cause I just need to think about it), she'll say, "But I thought we were best friends". If we were best friends, we'd be a lot more friendly, and actually make an effort to hang out together, if you know what I mean.... I need some advice on what to do about this, and fast!!!!!! ~Nellie [Beautiful Dreamer123]
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2003-03-14 16:48:16 |
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Anorexia is not the answer
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Hello I am desperate for advice! Yesterday my husband came home with foul smelling breath, and it immediately alerted my suspicions, for some reason. It smelled like the smell of breath after 'oral sex'. I couldn't shake it off, but there was just no way I was going to say anything, and have him look at me like I was crazy. I mean it could have been caused by something else, right? I did mention to him that his breath was especially bad, and he just told me what he ate. I feel a little shooken up by this, but I know there is no way to ever really know the truth about it. Do you think this is possible? Or do you think it is just my imagination? Thanks. [Anonymous]
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2003-03-13 13:56:45 |
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Today's advice
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You seem to give good advice and I'm wondering if you can help me out. I basically have 2 and a half problems. 1. My teachers hate me, I can feel their hatred, it makes me feel aweful inside. I don't cry on the outside by inside I'm having an emotional breakdown 2. I'm turning towards anorexia even though I know I don't have enough control. My mother tells me that I'm fat and that I should get on the scale I have no one to talk to this about because it's too personal for me. 2.5 I think that a guy will like me if I changed my body image. It's not like I don't want to change, but I just don't know how. I really need your help! ~Steph [Stephanie]
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2003-03-11 21:54:15 |
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Today's advice
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Thanx a lot for the advice!! Yea I think these were the people that If things didn't happen the way they did I would def care about them after graduating. Especially HIM. But it's okay now. I'm over it pretty much and getting by. I appreciate your advice!! Again THX!!!! [EasilyInLove86]
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2003-03-11 18:54:41 |
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Today's advice
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thanks for the advice, im calling him right now [tef8183]
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2003-03-11 17:13:44 |
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when friends want more
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i need advice. i like this guy but i didnt think he liked me so i didnt talk to him anymore. he told my friend that he waved at me and tried to talk to me but i woulnt talk to him. i thought he was only feeling sry for me. he said he was thinking about hooking up with me (like asking me to the movies), but he didnt know what to do sioncec i never talk to him. he thought i only liked him or a day, but i still do. i think ill call him this week since it is spring break. should i bring up the whole liking him thing? what else should i talk about? i dont know if i should say something about liking him or not. please help me! [tef8183]
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2003-03-09 16:08:17 |
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when friends want more
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I need some advice. This is going to take a while so sit and relax. Ok here we go. My name is Brittany, I'm sixteen, and fall under the "sixteen and never been kissed" category. I've never been in a relationship EVER. Now I have always been the type to fall for my guy friends. Well I've been in love for my best guy friend since August 7, 2000. Yes I know the date and yes it is pathetic. We used to hang out like everyday and tell each other almost everything. When I first met him I liked him and once we began talking I told him that I thought he was cute and he was nice and stuff. Well, Maria's friend Andrea hurt him because he liked her but she was rude about it when she found out. Because of this when i told him he was like thanx for telling me but I'm hurting and I don't want to act on anything. I didn't ask him out but that is how he took it but I was just like whatever because I didn't think my feelings would end up being as deep as they are. Well time went on and me and Maria started liking him more and more. Well, he started getting crushes on every single girl I introduced him to. So being the good friend I would try to work magic but it never worked. Finally he started looking at Maria differently. They never "went out" but they scammed a few times and had their little fling (she thought I was over him). Well, their thing finished. I was so hurt by it but I wouldn't let anyone know. Well, he moved and I moved so we are not as close of friends as we used to be but I still am in love with him. Only one person knew that. Well, he has know been dating another one of my good friends Alena. I was hurt but happy for them. I wrote about how they are together and how I felt about it. I even wrote how since they have been together I have been seeing everyday I spent with him and if I would have just said this instead of that maybe things would be different. Well, I guess they way I wrote things make it seem like I wish the worst for them. Alena's friend Dorthy read it and told Alena that I wished that they were not together and I was spiteful. She took it the wrong way so I took it upon my self to tell her everything. She doesn't talk to me anymore and I won't talk to him because I don't want her to think I'm trying to steal him because I'm NOT. Now I have lost 2 of my closest friends because I was honest. My friends tell me they aren't worth it and that it sux for them. But it's one of my good friends since like 6th grade and the guy I have loved since I was 13. I've apoligized to her about 100 times and have decided that I don't want him in my life if this is what it is going to cause. Dorthy told me I was a toxic friend and Alena just won't talk to me since she wrote to me in my diary. I feel like I'm being punished for being honest and it hurts a lot. Do you think I am outline for doing all this? Do you think My friend has the right to be as mad as she is? Do you think I was being selfish by saying anything? Please just tell me all you thoughts on my situation. Thank you so much. [EasilyInLove86]
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2003-03-09 12:24:52 |
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when friends want more
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My father beats me, and today he broke my arm. I'm too scared to do anything because my mother never does anything to help. She tells me that it's my fault for being so stupid. I don't know where to turn, and I have nowhere to go. I have little money and am still in school. I want to kill myself everyday, I've tried before and failed. What should I do? [Mekare]
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2003-03-07 13:52:37 |
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another day with a question
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My friend kissed me. My friend "Mark" and I have been friends for about 2 years now. Me, my sister and Mark hang out almost every day. Last weekend we went out to a club and he kissed. I kind of new that he had a crush on me, but never thought he would try to pursure anything. I did not want to hurt his feeling so I kissed him back, but it really creeped me out. I am afraid if I tell Mark that I only want to be his friend that he will stop hanging out with me and my sister and I defenately dont want that to happen. Any Suggestions??? [Lily]
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2003-03-05 16:36:14 |
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More great advice to a high schooler
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Thanks soo much for your advice, it really helped! [OneUvaKind]
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2003-02-28 19:15:55 |
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More great advice to a high schooler
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Thanks for the advice I mgoing to try it Monday~ but one more thing how do I actually start talking to him? I mmean this is basically the first guy i TRULEY had a crush on. I wrote him a note and he didnt write back yet so. Love, confused [Anonymous]
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2003-02-28 16:46:04 |
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high school, best friends, and the dark brown stuf
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Yeah I have a problem, its not too serious but its typical high school BS. Well I met this one guy, and I really thought he was hot, so I tolled my friend which is daiting his friend. We went over to his house and hung out for a while, then we left. Well my friend that is daiting his friend couldn't go out one night so me and another friend went over to phillips house. We ended up spending the night over there, and phillip and I made out and he got a bloody nose and bleed all over me. I just laughed and told him it really wasnt a big deal. Well a couple nights later my friend Brittney could go out so we went over to phillips house again. shon and Brittney were sleeping so phillip and I got naked and had un-protected sex. Its really against my beliefs but I liked him so much I did it anyway. BIG MISTAKE. now he tells Brittney and his friend Shon that he likes me but doesnt want a relationship. Did I go wrong somewhere? What should I do to get him to want to be my boyfriend? Im attractive and have a great personality, and could get a lot of guys, but I want this one! what should I do?? [Kady]
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2003-02-28 10:22:44 |
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Tonight's dinner
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hey well i need help i did it with this guy for the first time and now i'm wondering if its ok to be having dark brown discharge or if this is like a sign of an infection or anything like that well i would really appreciate any help at all [jaime]
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2003-02-27 19:41:45 |
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Tonight's dinner
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Hi. I'm having a problem. Well not really me, its my friend. We said that we were interested in each other, but nothing has really happened yet. A couple months ago, he had a very bad breakup with a girl; she cheated on him three times. When I saw him a couple days ago, he told me that she wrote him a letter of apology and now she wants him back. He confided in me that he might be falling back in love with her. He knows she doesn't deserve him, and he doesn't deserve all the pain she caused her, but he still has no idea what to do. He asked me if I was upset because as he put it: 'I thought we had something here.' And I really want that, so of course, I don't think he should take her back, but at the time, I didn't speak up. So I later sent him an email, basically saying 'You know how I feel about you, so I'm not gonna lie and say take her back. But whatever you do, as long as you're happy, i'm happy, because thats what you deserve.' As of right now, he has not read the email, so I have no idea what he thinks. My question is, what should I do? Or should I just sit back and let him think this through alone? If you need any further clarification on this situation, I wrote all about it in my latest entry. Thanks for anything you have to offer! [OneUvaKind]
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2003-02-27 19:23:47 |
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Tonight's dinner
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Im in high school and I really like this one guy. You could say it was love at first sight. My one friend told him that I liked him and I was kinda mad. I wrote him a note and it's been at elast a couple of days and he hasn't wrote back yet. My question to you is, since your a guy, how do I get him to ontice him. Going up to him and saying hi isn't going to be a option since I m shy and I would die if I would ever have to say something to me. I have my friends to do it all for me. Thanks, CONFUSED [Anonymous]
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2003-02-27 15:52:44 |
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Tonight's dinner
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Thank you. You're right everybody has their staples, The beans and macaroni... Pasta fagouli.. is one of ours, so is chicken soup, I am just completely chickened out. As for succotash, Yummy! but I'm the only one who likes it, and the others would not be happy if that was what's for dinner. I really like the revenge of the side dishes.. I have always wanted to make a meal out of appetisers too, they can be so good. Thank you again. [ellipsis]
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2003-02-25 14:08:14 |
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Tonight's dinner
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Okay, so now what do you do about the aching hunger I have now that you are talking about such yummy stuff? :) (I am at work, so cooking anything is not an option) [somthinboutmary]
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2003-02-25 14:01:49 |
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Today's advice
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What should I make for dinner? I know this is not a typical advice question, but I am just running out of ideas. And nothing sounds good. [ellipsis]
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2003-02-25 12:37:24 |
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Today's advice
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Deep thought.... :) [somthinboutmary]
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2003-02-25 06:56:12 |
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Today's advice
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so true =) Have a nice day! !~Samantha~! [Butterfly_kizzez_17]
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2003-02-24 13:23:04 |
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Advice to a lady high schooler
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i agree, u gave her some good advice, going for an older guy who's taken just isn't worth it, besides it's not being very fair to his gf, my advice...be friends wit him but find another guy to be interested in as a bf toodles [sWeEt__HeArT]
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2003-02-23 00:54:14 |
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Advice to a lady high schooler
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I agree. :) [somthinboutmary]
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2003-02-20 12:54:46 |
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todays advice
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hey, ok here goes ... i am a freshman in high school and im in love. he is a senior and he has a girlfriend. she goes to a far away school and everyday he flirts with me, spends a lot of time with me, and basically acts very interested. how can i make something happen between us? should i tell him how i feel? [elizabethann]
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2003-02-18 16:52:47 |
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todays advice
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Wonderful [ellipsis]
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2003-02-18 16:47:58 |
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todays advice
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So do orgasms if you do your kegel exercises :) [somthinboutmary]
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2003-02-18 13:06:46 |
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todays advice
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Words to live by...:) [Sonesta]
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2003-02-18 12:50:39 |
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Today's advice
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hey could you read my entry number 51 and tell me what you think i should do. thanks! [myconfusedlife]
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2003-02-16 18:01:04 |
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Today's advice
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Thank you. That's good advice.. What about tomorrow? [ellipsis]
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2003-02-14 14:25:37 |
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Need a laugh?
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well I was told that "Advice 4U" could give me advice on anything, so this is my problem, I'm caught up in the middle of my best friend and a former friends argument, my former friend is now friends with another former friend of mine, and now I think they're plottin against me, I decided to write the other former friend a letter to let her know that they need to chill out since I have nothing to do with whatever problem they're having, one of my friend's told me not to let her know that their mind games were getting to me because that's just what they want, so I haven't given her the letter yet, my friend may be right but I still feel the need to confront her, so I can know for sure what's going on, what do you advise? You seem to know a lot about girl issues and ways to handle them for being a man :) [Frances]
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2003-01-29 18:47:05 |
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Need a laugh?
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Dang nabit. Oh my! [ellipsis]
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2003-01-28 12:12:47 |
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advice to a hurt child
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Hey there...I just wanted to say, I've read through your previous entries and I must commend you on your devotion to spending time and effort to offer some advice to those in need of it. I think you're doing a wonderful thing. Good for you. Take care :) [Sonesta]
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2003-01-23 20:08:25 |
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Todays question
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My AIM is 'whtvrhappens' [Advice 4U]
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2003-01-23 19:59:50 |
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home alone
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Hi......I have a question about what I should do. My father molests me every night and I talk about in my diary if you want to check it out. I have a boyfriend whom I love so much but whenever we start to make out at all I have to stop, because I get mentle imgaes of what my father's done to me. I don't think I can tell my boyfriend about what my father does and he feels awful that he isn't doing something right.I want an intimate relationship with someone other than my father. A positive intimate relationship, but it's like mentally impossible. Thanks for any help you offer! [iamhurt]
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2003-01-23 19:25:03 |
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Todays question
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More advice requested... I was away for the weekend and my husband stayed home. Now that I have returned the left side neighbors have asked me what my husband has been doing all weekend. They said there were cars in and out constantly. The right side neighbors have asked where Jim was all weekend that He was hardly ever home. When Husband was asked what he did the whole weekend I was away he replied, "nothing" and ammended it with "Me and Rich went out saturday night." None of the cars described were Rich's very noticible big red and white ford truck. What would you think? and Should I just drop it? It really doesn't seem like a big deal except the neighbors mentioning it a couple times. [ellipsis]
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2003-01-23 14:08:01 |
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Todays question
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hey, do you have msn messanger or yahoo messanger or aim? [CuteCuddleKitty]
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2003-01-22 06:43:30 |
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Todays question
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hey, lol, sorry if that insulted you in any way, just most males that I know, don't know much about that sorta thing. thanks for replying so fast, I really wanted to know ur thoughts. I will keep taking the pills, becuz I def. don't want a baby. I don't think there is much to worry about, but ya know, there is that little worry there. but thanks once again! I'm gettin a new diary name, cuz this one's gettin deleted. so what's ur a/s/l? [CuteCuddleKitty]
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2003-01-21 18:44:26 |
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Life's Decisions
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I need some advice, but ur male, so I'm not quite sure if you can answer this... Anyways, my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex for the first time yesterday.. I am on the pill, but I've only been on it for 3 weeks. So I'm not fully protected yet. I got him off b4 we had sex, and we made sure that he didn't go inside me.. Although, there was prolly the pre-cum that did. Do you think I'm at risk? Please help, I don't really know who to ask on this, so I just looked up an advice diary. [CuteCuddleKitty]
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2003-01-21 06:48:07 |
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todays ADVICE entry
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QUESTION what should i do with my life? :P [Anonymous]
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2003-01-12 23:24:21 |
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todays ADVICE entry
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so these pins setting machines.... do people have to get under them , howd he die. did he unplug it first? (super confussed ) [punkass]
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2003-01-12 23:22:57 |
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todays ADVICE entry
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That was delicate and tactfully handled. But I am afraid he would have to also pretend that he was living under a rock to act as if he didn't know about the incident. But the good news is that RC put in the application. Thank you. [ellipsis]
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2003-01-12 16:43:39 |
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N/A
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You can't exactly go up to them and say "Hey, I heard your pinsetter is dead, Well, this is your lucky day. I have experience as a pinsetter. Can I have his job?" [ellipsis]
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2003-01-11 03:36:41 |
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N/A
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Ok, he did hear it on the news, on the radio, on the news. The guy did die. RC knew the guy. The question is how can he go about delicately asking for a job in light of this situation. He is not afraid of getting killed by the pinsetting machine, he has experience at this job. He needs a job. But he doesnt want to look like a vulture swooping in while the body is still warm, so to speak. So, ok, he should go fir it, but how? How do you handle a situation like this with tact and grace? [ellipsis]
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2003-01-11 03:33:20 |
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!!!Grand Opening!!!
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Ok, I have to ask, This is something a friend asked me yesterday, I honestly didn't know what to tell him. RC heard on the radio that a pinsetter at a bowling alley in his town was killed by the pinsetting machine. RC has experience as a pinsetter (not at this alley) and is in need of a job. How do you think he should handle offering his help to the bowling alley? Leave your answer here and I will come back to read it. Or you can email it to me at ellipsis70@yahoo.com. Thank you. I'm sure I will be asking you things of my own soon enough. ~smiles~ [ellipsis]
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2003-01-09 13:02:54 |
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